Mr. Ari R. Kolman Canada's Page

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I love Playing Music as long as I'm awake. I love imagining that Jerby the Chipmunk visits me in the night time & watches me type here.. I love imagining that every Homophobe that spreads hate & bigotry onto others, gets the wrath of God.. I love Imagining that The Kids in the Hall got back together; started a reunion show and I was added to the group.. In my Day Dream Scott & I are Sisters & in reality the best of friends.. I love day dreaming “that Stephen Colbert calls & asks me to be on his show”, and I love imagining that we had so much money that all we did was help others with it.

I really feel great helping those living and coping with HIV/AIDS & I know as everyone else should: that any donation to a trusted source, will make a big difference in finding a cure. It’s unbelievable that there is no cure today, but with your help we can get closer to finding one don’t you think? Please click the banners and links to the Supportive Aids/HIV Awarness Sites listed here, for it is with me that you can trust each one of them…. It’s hard to trust in a world like today, but believe it that YOU CAN TRUST ME & THANK GOD I’M GAY…. So in the mornings many times these days Ed & I Sit talking about various things (like what I did all night online), but end up Discussing all the things that many people are not aware of; things we know from experience or took the time to learn about.. World Homophobia & Femaphobia & Love & Disgusting Toxic People's Behaviors, as well as the beautiful people in the world (including my beautiful friends on Myspace). But also the terrible people in the American Government that are hurting the world, and hurting all Gay People in the world; Don’t worry what goes around comes around “isn’t that what “THEIR GOD” preaches to them? However I’m into so much more; I'm also into playing music to lift my spirits or DJ'ing for myself now (unless you count my Honey or the Neighbors that hear the music from next door). I was a Dancer so now I’m Dancing, and not like a sexy guy but the pretty young thing that I really am. Oh yes I can be a sexy guy or a pretty young thing, and when you have that talent it’s good to be an Activist… I love Advocating for the Causes that mean a lot to me in this lifetime. Like for instance by clicking this next animated image, you will pop open another amazing friend that dedicated his page to the so-called “HIV Postives” World Wide that are fighting the HIV Industry, and to those HIV Positives that may not know or understand that there is some really good reasons that they should be questioning everything they have been told about HIV and AIDS...it's a matter of their lives and death.

always wanted to see Cyndi Lauper Live, but who knows maybe next year? I also always wanted to see what I would look like in High Quality Drag, performing a High Quality Number with my High Quality Dancing & Lip Syncing, and my High Quality Back Up Dancers and Singers - but I never really got a chance to do that either. Even though many of the friends that I had downtown; performing in drag at the Clubs I went to, always wanted to do me up; it just never happened… But I also love other things like Joking, Decorating, Writing, Playing with the Goats, Playing with Star my baby, Bird Watching, Raccoon watching, Chipmunk watching & Squirrel Watching… Communication & Expression! Arts & Crafts, Singing, Meditating, Praying. Astrologizing, Spiritualizing, and feeling The Goddess & The God at my presence; along with my Guardian Angel & Mom & Dad (Mom & Dad sometimes).. Awareness of my Spirituality & the surrounding Diversity is number 1, while Real Spiritual Love is now #2, but the Love of my Life will always come before both..

I’m very much Into Equality for all yes, but so many think that we GAYS don’t deserve it so I look for the next best things I’m into and that’s the Soul, The Land, The Air, The Animals, The Activism, Philosophy, Guitar Strumming, Movie Making in my mind, watching the horrible Young & Restless after The Wonderful Daily Show & The Colbert Report on daily recordings... And so much more if I could only just have a good night‘s sleep.

And being with my Man (my equal) on a day to day to day basis,, now that he’s retired… WE THINK EVERYONE SHOULD TAKE A STAND FOR EQUALITY by Supporting Civil Rights Bills & Legislations in your area , that Protect us Gays, Lesbians, Transgender & Girly-boys from discrimination; when that‘s taken care of maybe all discriminations will be finished with.. It‘s so hard to want to go out into town knowing that there are so many Femaphobes & Homophobes around. I have on the nail polish art, the fancy feminine attire & accessories, and that can really bother a Femaphobe. Especially when they‘ve never seen anything like me in their whole entire Lives.. By saying this, I will say (AND I WILL SING) that I think we are all discriminated against (even those that think we are not), because we all have our own bias opinions.. But those who think they are not have it a little better than we who are… Now if they can imagine what it is like for the millions of GLBTQ’s in the world to be suppressed and discriminated against from family & members of their society in such a way that being difficult or Violent. Or being attacked or murdered, or being suicidal is an issue on a daily basis. STOP THE RELIGIOUS FUNDAMENTALIST FANATICS THAT OWN BUSH, FROM TAKING OVER THIS WORLD OF ENLESS BEAUTIFUL NON-VIOLENT POSSIBILITIES…

I wanna sing about my Friends that sign the Petitions on the side & the one above; I wanna sing it out Loud to the Heavens above!! I feel my voice excels in many ranges when I‘m truly excited or excitable; like the feminine range & the masculine range… I’ve been singing Duets with my self for years, I’ve been changing the words of songs for years to suit my “Homophobia Frustration Relation” but I do it at the instant that I feel when a song I like is playing, so by not writing down what I sang; screamed, Hip-Hopped or Rapped - I'm not able to repeat the lyrics again for a recording… I’ve got to sit and do it with pen or keyboard in hand to write the rhyming words down. Its so exciting you just can’t wait I know. I would love to paint big beautiful pictures as well, but I can’t do that with a cig in my mouth and my fingers going a mile a minute on the keyboard now can I? So I’ll settle for just posing for a painting by you…. And if you read the rest of this page, you'll find a whole lot more of what I'm into... Like Cropping & Decorating my Photographs & Websites, as well as Writing & Blogging for the world to read.. Do you like to read?

I’m finding out that not a lot of people do like to read, but they love to click. They don’t have time to read, but they have time to click… How can we go on trying to change the world for the better by educating and promoting awareness, when there are so many people who can make a difference and just don’t like to read or just don’t have time to - but they just love clicking those links to fun places (hardly ever clicking to support anyone can you imagine?). Well I used to hate reading, but My Mom & Dad were right by asking me “if you don’t read what will you know to help you in life later?” Well, I didn’t know much, but I left home anyway at 15 knowing for sure that I was doomed for so many reasons - and the biggest two were not reading before leaving home, and not having any money of my own. With money I could have bought the paper to find AdPost’s looking for a roommate or girlyboy house-maid.. Na just kidding.. But Classified Adposts were the furthest from my mind at 15.… Now I don’t need a roommate but posted ads in the Classifieds are wonderful to look at for stuff..

Oh I just hated reading, and would avoid all circumstances that needed me to .. Wouldn’t read the books for school, not the Newspaper, not the road signs & not even the Classified Ads to find a Job with (Not that I even knew where North, East, South or West was on a map). Now I read, edit, write & speak as properly as possible… And I know exactly where I‘m going (or staying)…

“Bush” is allowed (as well as others “who like him” or are like him) to hire no one but Homophobes for assisting & advising on Destroying the World, and National Leaders are still responsible for Murdering GLBT People… JUST LIKE THAT WITH NO PROBLEM WHAT SO EVER…. Anyone where ever is allowed to Hurt a Gay Person (isn’t that nice?). Even if a Homophobe hurts a Gay Person or Feminine Man (or someone who appears to be Gay in the ignorant eye of the beholder) with Hate Letters - They should be arrested… I’m pretty Lucky today to be alive, so let’s see…. Who would I like to Chat with?? Well that visitor (Friend or not); that clicks the supportive images that I have here, and supports one of the causes when they can by writing a letter, signing a petition, joining a group, contributing information, clicking links that donate from their click, and donating monies when ever they can to help change the world to a more acceptable & caring one; where living in it is truly wonderful for all Woman, Man, Child, Woman/Man, Animal & All of Mother Natures Green & Colorful Living Plants, Trees, Waters, Air & Sky & all living in her environment… Thank you for all the support on behalf of everyone fighting for their True Rights & all the animals that can’t speak up for theirs.. We Love You!!

Everyone on my Friends List, anyone on my Music List, My Hero List and my Groups List. As well as some Singers, musicians, Movie & Television people that I’ve admired for years… Like Barbra Streisand, Bette Midler, Jim Carey, Grace Jones, Scott Thompson, Bruce McCulloch, John Stewart, Stephen Colbert, Lewis Black, Beth Chapman - or like the cast & crew of QAF, ReGenesis, & the now terribly written w/homophobia; The Young & the Restless. I'd like to meet with those beautiful human beings that have chatted with me & would still like to... Also still waiting to receive a Chat request with one of my Celebrity Friends, but I’m not going to say they will Never contact me (even though I never know if any of them have visited me here).. My Mom used to say “Never say Never” all the time to me, but it’s hard enough trying to get friends to sign my Ecodox GuestMap or Subscribe to my Bloggage, or leave comments for me or chat with me, so who has time anymore - everyone is so involved in their own life or career OR HELPING PEOPLE, that little old me (who just turned 30.. Oops I mean 40) just has to be more patient for them to come around. I’m already in Love with a few of my Friends, and they also want to come over or have me come over for some tea & cookies, but I think that’s just another wonderful day dream…. A really beautiful & Loving Day Dream….

And one thing is for sure, if one day they are really sad (like I am many times a day), and they have no one else to talk to, they’ll think of me and hopefully send me a note or pick up the IMchat. So let’s see who else? Mmmm… Oh Yes! Anyone like school kids always aware of the defenseless Homophobia Victims out there, or perhaps - Mmmm, how about hearing from old Dance Teachers or Teachers of anything but Religion? I wish my old friends could find me here… From downtown or as far back as The Claude Watson School of Performing Arts that I attended for about 3 years - before discovering that I was a Gay Teenager and only admiring the Girls without wanting to have sex with them. However there were a lot of sexy girls that wanted to have sex with me - believe me, but even though my reputation as “the ladies man” or “the dancer” proceeded me - I would stick myself to one girl and the rest of them would stay away with those touchy feelies of theirs… Oh that poor one girl…. But who has time to meet people, if I were to meet them I’m sure It would be because I’ve either talked to them or chatted with them first no? Or they’re being Hired as our House Cleaning Helper.. And since I don’t go out to celebrity parties (or any social events for that matter), I would never meet them accidentally now would I? So if you want to, need to, or have to speak to me through myspaceIMchat , “I’m waiting for a chat with you as well (myspaceIM IS THE BEST FOR ONE-ON-ONE Chats BELIEVE ME).. “ But please make sure you realize I'm not looking for sexual relations that involves meeting you LIVE - or buying from your advertising JIVE, just talking to you like a true friend and sweet person (as if we were on the phone). You can think I‘m sexy & tell me about it (as I will tell you if you are), but don‘t get carried away with that THANG alright? I Love Goats & Butterflies do you?


Enjoy my company; my personality, my words, jokes, my Goat stories, sibling stories, advice or just picture comments, and as long as you don’t mind me being sad over missing my Mom for more than 3 years now, You’re The Friend For Me… Now on a happy note, I am some what sarcastic, but it’s not harmful it’s just witty to keep the time between us smiling. And at some point you may think I’m judging you but (I forgive you), I’m not don’t worry about that…. But you may be worried about my explanation explaining that I wasn’t being Judgmental?? That’s an issue you may need to take up with your own Therapist. Calm down It’s okay, Therapists are great for Boys & Girls, and if more of you can make the appointments then you’d feel better because someone is listening to you and trying to be there for you - Kind of like me, just making tons of money…. I also feel terrible many times as well so don't worry - I'm not the “always happy type“, but I am always happy to receive a chat request with you... There for I may sound like I have no problems at all, but as you can see I also do… I’m a Taurus yes - so I am Wise yet Funny (I know this because the wise & funny ones drink Lactose Free Chocolate Milk in the morning), but I’m not like the average Taurus (what ever you heard) so if the average Taurus scares you; don’t be scared with me. However you might be SCARED OF YOUR OWN FUTURE if you don’t VOTE FOR 2 OF THE FOLLOWING 4 GREAT HEROES OF OUR TIME…

What ever happens in the US does not just affect the U.S, it affects everywhere; like Canada… We must get more Canadians to help with the Process of Impeaching those that are Impeachable… Thank you because they are all greatly responsible for massive global destruction (global warming, world hate, over consumption which also leaves us with the extinction of species, and then there’s encouragement of Homophobia + much much more), and the faster we get them out of office, the better.. I Arishmary (another Caring Gay Canadian), ask Congress to impeach the impeachable & start with Vice President Cheney and President Bush.. TO BRING THIS WORLD TO A BETTER PLACE FOR EVERYONE & EVERYTHING.. Speaking of everyone & everything, let’s get back to me… A n d a l l m y w o n d e r f u l Q u a l i t i e s t h a t e v e r y o n e j u s t a d o r e s … I’m extravagant; artistically extravagant & some what of an eccentric (with songs; words, gifts & life), especially when it comes to building a profile site such as this one. Oh yes and I’ve been called both “Funny & Cheeky” by many… When it comes to "Love, Pain, Friendship, Family, Grief, Morals, Social Ethics, Mom & Child Relationships, Homophobes, Femaphobes, Xenophobes & other phobes (like the ones in the white house or n.a.z.i sites online); I’m Serious, Proud & Determined; but I know they are out there so please don’t send me a disturbing “copy & paste version” of their whole website.. However while you‘re at it, you may also think about NOT debating me & my experiential instincts that guide me on many quick & helpful decisions to do with Love, Pain, Friendship, Family, Grief, Morals, Social Ethics, Mom & Child Relationships, Homophobes, Femaphobes, Xenophobes & other phobes.. I am opinionated (with a flare of Cheeky‘ness), or as others would call it "OUTSPOKEN".. I’ve also noticed that Activism is the best thing when you’re upset about something.. Like for instance a Monster..

ARE YOU UPSET ABOUT THE MONSTERS THAT ARE WALKING AROUND FREE TO HURT & KILL? MONSTERS IN THE FORM OF HUMANS? NO NOT TV FUNNY MONSTERS - REAL LIFE HORROR MONSTERS!!!

Well Me too; particularly one recently discovered Hurting; Torturing & Killing beautiful Companion Pet Dogs; by owning them for the soul purpose of profit from Dog fighting in his own back yard… Yes I’m speaking of the terrible example of a Man “MICHAEL VICK” Former Over Paid & under educated NHL SUPER !?#$%^=4BRAINS… Have you seen what this Man was capable of doing to these poor animals?

Right now we can all do something, and you know what we can do… That’s right, Sign petitions & send notes… Boycott & Cancel Season Tickets until it is signed that Vick will never play in the NFL again.

Thank you for your support, I care for people & I care for animals and think everyone should. Many of the people don’t like other people like me, yet many of the Animals Love Me… But I always give people a chance, even if they judge me, even if they don’t understand me, and even if they hurt me (or try to)… However let me help as many people in the world as I can (Gay or Straight), and as many animals in the world as I can pet or wild; and that makes me feel better, especially with all the disturbing things I have in my emotional heart & soul..

I’m not Homeless but I’ve been friends with many homeless people in my time downtown, as well as gave away tons of cigarettes & money to those homeless downtown.. I do however have Fibromyalgia (or as my straight sister pronounces it “Fibro-myLayJa“).. I also have the terrible stomach, the terrible sleeps, the terrible siblings and I.B.S, V.I.P.S, G.O.D.S, L.O.V.E.S & sometimes P.M.S.S: Post-Male Sissy Syndrome... I still Grieve for my Mom & Dad & Ziggy… I work all day or night on my Ecodox.com & other sites, I love when someone describes me as “being an amusing fast pace movie with lots of things to learn about“, and I’m also Multi-Talented w/a background in the Performing Arts, Professional Dance, Disc Jockey, Event coordinator, Hairdressing & Modeling industry. I’d Love to Paint, I’m always wanting to make Arts & Crafts and I think looking outside through our window here - Is like being at a Gallery of Large & Framed Panoramic Nature Photographs.. However Nothing I’ve said should say to you that I’m too busy to chat with you because now I don’t do any of them professionally.

Now my profession is watching Star’s every move so she doesn‘t slip and hurt herself in her condition, while I‘m up and about inside the house and working on my Myspace profile, blogs, calendar & activism… The Passing Away of our animals is something I can‘t stand, they‘re so innocent and never wanna leave Ed & I.. So now with Star I’ve been giving her this wonderful; chewable & flavored like Beef Aspirin made just for her… Oh Star my Baby just Loves these Canine Chewable Aspirins from my Trusted Affiliate SFI. I give it to her when she‘s feeling under the weather (like on a sunny day after a bone), and later she feels better or good enough to calm down & take a nap… Each chewable tablet has a great ROAST BEEF and LIVER flavor! As well as all the other animals we’ve had; by reading my Blogs you will also read about Babbs our Goat that has been ill since the summer of 2006 right until this Summer where standing became impossible.. So she passed away & we miss her like crazy, but we know she’s in a good place & hopefully visiting us from time to time..

However most important is that I’m still grieving about my Mom & Dad as well as worried about the other baby Goat Prezi - “so if you need me not, how about being for me to need“. Spiritual Love is the Greatest of all ways of Life, I can feel, I can hear I can see & I can breath; take Spiritual Love Away & I think we all will die inside... Then who shall care for the poor Mother Earth & her baby creatures?? Who I ask of the Global Caring Community? Who?...

Interests

Click to Help Campaigns, Advocate Before it Rains, Make a Difference In Your Life Time, You do Your Part & I’ll Do Mine… Animals are for Lovin so Tell People To tell People their Not For Hurting; Using, Killing & Putting in the Oven… I am a Proud Gay Global “Super Girly” Boy that will cry for the defenseless animals in the world just as much as I cry from missing my Mom & Dad on a daily basis. But crying is not enough people, we must wipe the tears and make things happen with this amazing internet; gathering like minded individuals who care for the planet and it’s living species. People who Love, who know that Love involves all lives on the Planet & the planet herself; not just themselves, are getting online everywhere in the world, and that includes the World Wide Wonderful GLBTQ Community. My main campaign is for “Help with Femaphobia & Homophobia in the world.. “Why do they hate everything girly about me? When I‘m a better person than they are? Oh ya, because I‘m a better person than they are…. Please my friend, Help me get others to “Help Erase The Hate of Gays in the World“… It’s not a Myth and it’s not stupid, there are Countries that still Murder People for being Gay (oh & when they see that you‘re Girly like me - don‘t ask.).. But now you can Sign Petitions, Write Letters & Boycott Products to Help Stop The Hate, The Homophobia, The Bullying, the KILLING & Bigotry - Just like you can for all the other things that matter.. And since my Profile is so full of my writing, banners, buttons and images, please subscribe to my Blog & everything important that I find and that can not fit here, will be posted there asap… Thank you for your support & enjoy being A Friend With Me!

My General Interest is Saying something & Stopping Homophobes, Femaphobes, Environmental un-awareness, Religious Fanatical blind sightedness, Political Suppression, money hungry people steppers, narcissistic righteous ignoramuses, the loop-de-loop of sanctimonious Christian messages, angry murderer wannabe’s and anyone who hurts anyone else with their un-Godly words of hate, sexism, ageism, racism & animal cruelty (whether it be Live, Online, On print, On lyrics, On the phone, On Media, or in the white house..

Arishmary’s American Friends approve of legislation to prevent Hate Violence. In fact, three in four (or 68%) of Americans asked: support expanding Hate Crime Laws; to include sexual orientation & gender identity, as well as giving Local Law Enforcement the tools & resources they need to investigate & prosecute these tragic acts of bigotry.

The Matthew Shepard Act is an appropriate and measured response to the unrelenting problem of violent hate crimes committed against individuals based on actual or perceived sexual orientation, gender, gender identity and disability. All people regardless of their race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or ability deserve to be free from violence and crimes committed because of hatred and bias. Show your support for the Matthew Shepard Act by also signing the Erase Hate Petition. Let your voice be heard and help us in our mission to Erase Hate.

Also as you can tell; Online Activism & Advocacy is of big interest… Especially after witnessing Homophobes that like to poke fun using the words & negative connotations GAY OPRESSORS HAVE USED FOR YEARS AGAINST GAYS & LESBIANS, but this particular young generation thinks it's okay and so funny.. IT‘S LIKE NOW THAT HOMOPHOBIA IS PUBLICALLY NOT ACCEPTED, THOSE ADDICTED TO THEIR OWN HOMOPHOBIA HAVE BECOME FEMAPHOBES WHILE WHEENING OFF THE HOMOPHOBIA… And I guess that‘s publicly acceptable?? And if you don’t like some of my opinions of how people hurt others and encourage homophobia while sounding like a dick themselves to people who are twice or 3 times their age & know a little bit more about pain, then I’ve got many more opinions where they all came from - so stay tuned...

Freeing The Dog from All Charges; is A Must… One of the many campaigns I Support… That‘s all I seem to want to do these days, support campaigns because All Is Not Okay in the World…

The beautiful Dog is Strong and has many followers so he will Survive, unlike the people in DARFUR… OMG if you can believe it’s happening, you can click this button below… But Guess what? It’s happening, even as I type these little letters there are little children being killed right now. If We do nothing, what will happen? Find out how you can help and Thank God for you my Friend.

DID YOU KNOW: Over 450,000 people have been killed in Darfur. 2.5 million are crammed into refugee camps with little access to medical care, clean drinking water, and security (on top of that they are treated poorly). Oxfam International discontinued its humanitarian operation after a staff worker was raped. The government of Sudan is attacking aid groups in order to target the refugee population.

For four years, the Sudanese government has pretended to negotiate on a peacekeeping force, only to cancel arrangements at the last minute.
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The ““United”” States should immediately implement a No-Fly Zone to protect those good people (their own civilians). Please Help Out & Thank you again…

Whether anyone wants to bitch about some terrible person they came across online, or they want to properly campaign against some kind of terrible injustice done to others; animal or a piece of the world; my interest there would be for me to listen, to feel & then to respond from my Heart & Soul; in Perfect Love & Perfect Trust… My response may be long & overwhelming at first but once you realize that I am not Attacking you, or that I am speaking from the Heart & Soul (in perfect Love & perfect Trust) to a dear friend, you may like what I have to say… I just like to help people, make people happy, give people compliments about how wonderful they are to me or others, and write Blogs that explain who I am for other people to realize that I am Non-Threatening & as sweet as the next Gay Jewish Guy…. What? You never met a Gay Jewish Guy before, well now you can & be friends with him…. Just please don’t try selling things to me or getting me to join any Entrepreneur Opportunity of yours… If I get a Friends Request that comes from a site with hardly anything in it but a few words, I will assume something around those areas, so expect a Deny from me in that case… I love my Bulletin of Friends that Help the world to be a better place offering Love & Support & times of Sorrow that they share with me (their dear friend), so I don’t need something like: New Video Out today, or Spy on Your Visitors or New T-Shirts out today… Plus if you are Straight, and there’s nothing interesting or personal for me at your site about you, I will assume you want to use my talents in some way and could be Homophobic… Please don’t be Homophobic… The last time I went to a Friends Request, he was a Comedian and the site was full but not funny, and then I saw he was straight (which I love, when I see another straight individual that wants to be my friend), but then I found a “so called Joke” about a smelly Pussy, and that’s just not funny…. So I wrote him to take it out, and anything else that I didn’t see that could be sexist or Homophobic & Denied the Friendship Until I heard from him again…. I never heard another word… The Homophobia Kills me, and being sexist is one or two steps away so no thank you, I’ve lived with Homophobic & Femaphobic Reactions to me all my Life… So really if you calculate all my Interests together I’m sure you will find a Grand Total of Love & Affection - Just not enough time to give it to everyone everyday, but what I do give I want it to Last in a Big Way..

IF LOVE DOESN'T DRIVE YOU? WHO IS DRIVING?

Tough Love? Good luck with that.. But you will be encouraging your youngster with emotional suppression & Heterosexual Masculinization as well as Femaphobia and you know that hurts me… When a Femaphobe says something like “you people who think you’re a vegan but you eat just chicken & fish, are a bunch of Tarts,“ - and then call it poking fun: they hurt no one but us good and loving sweet fruit cakes & tart people that make a difference in the world (for the better of all woman; girly, animal & man kind)… I am a tart (a fag, a fairy, a twink and proud to be them all), so it really hurts, especially when I care so much about others…. But back to my Other General Interests include simply: First off and foremost, being a “chatty Cathy or chatting with Cathy, or Chatting to everyone by writing in this Profile; which is a great thing because I wouldn’t be able to help as many people as I do if I wasn’t interested in writing as much as I do while working creatively online with the websites.. Then on top of everything I‘m Interested in Music, Art, the Arts, Poetry, Dance, humanities, literature, culture, society, lifestyles, family, hobbies, crafts, news, nature, pets, animals, spirituality, shamanism, Wicca, pagens, the Jewish, shopping, gardens, fashion, education, astrology, glbtq community, queers, fags, tarts, fairies & real Fairies, fruit cakes, “Zima Sipping She-Males”, girly-boys, transgenders, gay children, gay youth, feminine children, feminine youth, gay awareness, gay activists, gay culture, queer culture, gay love, gay relationships, those coming out of their closet, decorating, reflecting, people’s Parents, people’s Love for others, People‘s Love for Animals & the Earth & Everything in between & around me. Like the Beautiful forest & their beautiful spirits. In Perfect Love in Perfect Trust - Live with Love & Your Life will never be a bust.

Organizations I belong to

Thee Global Girlyboy Arishmary of Canada

My website

http://www.ecodox.com

Other profile

http://www.myspace.com/arishmary

Another website I think is cool

http://https://www.moreinfo247.com/9436002/HFB

Books

I spend way to much time online reading: people’s sites, people’s Blogs, people’s Biased opinions & my own stuff after writing & editing them. Ed is the one that reads the Books around here (and wonderful books I must say). There are so many books here that I wish I had time for, so I'll list them all instead when I have the chance to get away from the online stuff & all the other great stuff that I’ve been waiting for a chance to read. Reading reading reading, something I never thought as a kid I would ever enjoy doing. Boy was I wrong.... Thanks Mom & Dad. Now there are so many books in my Life that I can never say "there's nothing to do“. My Mom loved a good book of passion, politics & deceit (that includes War) Novels, before falling asleep just to get all the crap out of her head from my 2 sisters & 1 brother driving her crazy everyday. She would loose herself in those books the way I loose myself in a realistic & scary Horror Movie. But me, I can’t read before going to bed - my heart’s beating too fast, I have a bunch of prayers to say to the Gods & Spirits and I have chilling-lingering memories of how my sisters & brother have treated me over the years.. But usually before I fall to sleep many nights, I remember how homophobia & Femaphobia has kept me from so many great things for so many years… One of them being; enjoying a good book in peace… The last time I had time to read something that wasn‘t online was while browsing on the TV‘s Satellite Guide of Shows & Movies; clicking on info and getting the terribly written Blurb of description for that show or movie.. However books & magazines of references to things like GLBT History, Animal Do it yourself Care, Astrology & Horoscope, Awareness of The Soul, The Earth, The Planet, The Heart, The Mind, The Great Gods & Spirits and books on Eating Foods Properly, Vitamins & Natural or Alternative Health - are my Favorites, do you read any of those kinds of books? Now if you want to talk about the Books that I hope to read from cover to cover one day, then I would have to go with these following favorites as well as recommending them to you: God is not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything by Christopher Hitchens, An Inconvenient Truth: The Planetary Emergency of Global Warming and What We Can Do About It by Al Gore, All the Books from Star Hawk, Anything from Jon Stewart, 2012: The Return of Quetzalcoatl by Daniel Pinchbeck , Shamanic Spirit: A Practical Guide to Personal Fulfillment by Kenneth Meadows , Anything from Christopher Penczak, and Amazon Magic: The Life Story of Ayahuasquero & Shaman Don Agustin Rivas Vasquez by Jaya Bear, The I Chong: Meditations from the Joint by Tommy Chong… And last but definitely not least Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell .. But who has time to read amazing books like that (or how about 'Faggots' by Larry Kramer & Cures' by Martin Duberman), certainly not me but maybe you do, I hope so because they’re all amazing…. There are other one’s but like I ask, who has the time to read offline?

Music

One thing I used to listen to, and that’s a lot of Hip Hop & Reggae- because of all those Hip Hop & Reggae Loving Friends I used to have that would want to hear the stuff all the time…
Nu ah,, not anymore…. After going through all my Hip Hop & Reggae LP’s, Tapes & Cd’s, I got rid of everyone who suggested that Girlyboys are not Men, and that if you’re Gay “you sicko must stay away”..

I just can’t stand watching Video TV or turning on the Radio & having to listen to all these Homophobic & Femaphobic statements said in Shows, Music & Videos from the Hosts, DJ‘s, Commercials and so forth. They make sick, they lack color, Love & inspiration, and I‘m not gonna take it anymore…

So I just love the fact that I have thousands of LP‘s, CD‘s, Tapes & 12 Inch Singles ready to play daily.. And Not Just Disco Either, as you will see in the list further down, but many other types of music…

ANYTHING IN THE SOLID GOLD ERA I LOVE: The Television Show called "SOLID GOLD" as well, because that was one of the first shows that got me hooked on good music.. However My Music Interests reach far & wide but exclude music with lyrics of Homophobia or Masculinism or sexism and you know the rest. But it's so far & wide that perhaps it even reaches to your Country of Origin - And thank God because without Music, I’d be walking around like the rest of those who prefer quite all the time..

I don’t even have quite in my head, I have either music, movies, or all of what’s in my “General Interest” Section above.. However it Includes everything from Barbra Streisand to Cher to Bob Dylan To Depeche Mode to Michael Bublé to Santana to Madonna to many Romantic Duets & many re-makes of old songs... The 40’s 50’s 60’s 70’s 80’s 90’s + Singer & Song Writers, Classic Rock, Crooners, Dance & DJ 12inch Singles, R&B if it’s not to Heterosexualized.. And of course New bands…

I love the new bands… Not all new bands, but new bands that definitely help to ">PUT THE JUICE BACK INTO PROGRESSIVE OUTREACH AND EMPOWER OUR GENERATION FOR SOCIAL CHANGE & KINDNESS, will always get a listen from my big ears…

But wait!!! There’s much much much more Favorites of mine here… I Love the Funky & Jazzy & Folkie & Bluesy.. Then there’s old House, old Retro, old New Wave & All Disco & Diva's.. Romantic Broadway & Vocalists, Love Soundtracks and Love Instrumentals (especially Latin or anything with Drums & Bongos), Indies, Classical, Healing songs and songs that help others in the world..

I love the Love songs & SONGS ABOUT MOM, New Age, Ambient, Shaman Songs, Spanish & Hebrew. Bollywood, and every other type of music… EXCEPT FOR - AND I MEAN EXCEPT FOR: Hard Screeching Rock/Metal, Nasty Sexist Rap & Hip-Hop; those unintelligible dark & narrow-minded songs of today - and “many other soul-less; offensive & homophobic songs & musicians”.

Performers, Composers, Lyricists, Producers, Recording artists, Activists, Promoters, Press/Media & Even Non-Musician friends who are Supporters of GLBT & Girlyboy Rights

Okay well here’s more of a list. A list of my CD’s & a few of the albums I have until I put them all here:: In Artistical Alphabeticals - ABBA, ABC, Al Stewart, Alyson Williams, Amber, Amii Stewart, Ancient Brotherhood, Andre Rieu, Andy Williams, Angela Bofill, Angela Winbush, Anita Baker, Annie Lennox, Aretha Franklin, Arpeggio, Art of Noise, Ashford & Simpson, A Taste of Honey, Atlantic Starr, ATB, Aurra, Barenaked Ladies, Bar-Kays, Barry Manilow, Barry White, B.B. King, Beach Boys, Bee Gees, Ben E. King, Benny Carter, Bette Midler, Betty Wright, Billy Holliday, Billy Joel, Billy Ocean, B.J. Nelson, Blondie, Blue Boy, Bobby McFerrin, Bobby Nunn, Bobby Vinton, Bob Dylan, Bohannon, Bombers 2, Boney M, Bonnie Pointer, Bootsy, Boyo, Brand New Heavies, Branford Marsalis, Brass Construction, Break Machine, Bronski Beat, Brook Benton, Brooklyn Express, Bruce Cockburn, Bruce Hornsby, Bryan Ferry, Burton Cummings, Byrds, Cameo, Carly Simon, Carol Douglas, Carol Jiani, Carol Lynn Townes, Carpenters, C+C Music Factory, Ce Ce Peniston, Celia Cruz, A very selected few of Celine Dion, Central Line, CERRONE, Chaka Khan, CHANGE, Charlie Haden, Charlie Parker, Chaz Jankel, Chena, CHER, Cherrelle, Cheryl Lynn, Cheryl Pepsi Riley, Chic, The CHIMES, The Chocolate Jam Co., Chuck Cissel, Chuck Stanley, Chris Mills, Christopher Cross, Christopher Parkening, Cindy & Roy, Cissy Houston, Claudja Barry, Collin James, Commodores, Communards, Constina, Count Basie, Cream, Crystal Waters, Cuba Gooding, Culture Club, Cyndi Lauper, Dan Hartman, Dan Fogelberg, David Bowie, Dazz Band, DeBARGE, Deborah Cox, THE DEELE, Delegation, Denise LaSalle, Dennis Edwards, Depeche Mode, Devo, Diana King, Dianne Reeves, Diana Ross, Dinah Washington, Dionne Warwick, Dizzy Gillespie, Donna Summer, Donna Washington, Donovan, The Dramatics, Dream Academy, D-TRAIN, Duran Duran, Dylan again and again, Eartha Kitt, Earth Wind & Fire, Egyptian Lover, Ella Fitzgerald, Elton John, Elvis, Elvis Costello, Elvis Crespo, THE EMOTIONS, Engelbert Humperdink, Enigma, Enrique Iglesias, Erasure, Eric Clapton, Eric Mercury, Erykah Badu, Etta James, Eugene Wilde, Eurythmics, ERUPTION, Evelyn “Champagne King”, Evelyn Thomas, Everything But the Girl, FANTASY, FAZE-O, F.D.R., Fine Young Cannibals, Fonzi Thorton, Force MD’s, FOXY, France Joli, Frankie Valli, Freddie Jackson, Freddie James, Full Force, Galaxy, The Gap Band, Gary’s Gang, George Benson, George Duke, George Michael, Georgio, Gibson Brothers, Gigio Valentina, Gino Soccio, Gino Vanelli, Gipsy Kings, Gladys Knight, Glenn Miller, Gloria Estefan, Gloria Gaynor, Gordon Lightfoot, GQ, GRACE JONES, Grandmaster Flash & The Furious Five, Gregg Diamond Bionic, Gwen Guthrie, Hall & Oats, Hanson & Davis, Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes, Harry Chapin, Harry Connick Jr., Herb Alpert, Herbie Hancock, High Energy, Holly Cole, Hot Chocolate, The Human League, Il Divo, INDEEP, Inner City, Instant Funk, Irma Thomas, Isley Brothers, Issac Hayes, Jackie Moore, Jaki Graham, James Brown, James Ingram, The Jammers, Janet Jackson, Janis Joplin, Jefferson Starship, Jenifer Holliday, Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Paige, Jennifer Warnes, Jermaine Jackson, Jermaine Stewart, Jerry Douglas, Jim Croce, Jimi Hendrix, Jim Morrison, Jody Watley, Johannes Linstead, Jon Anderson, Jon Secada, Joni Mitchell of course, Julio Iglesias because of Mom KC & the Sunshine Band, Kenny Rogers, Kool & the Gang, Kraftwerk, Kylie Minogue, Leonard Cohen, Linda Ronstadt, Liona Boyd, Lionel Richie, Lipps Inc, Londonbeat, Louis Armstrong, Louis Bellson, Luis Miguel, Luther Vandross, M People, Madonna, Mariah Carey’s older stuff, Martha Wash, Marvin Gaye, Melanie, My Friend Michael Buble, Michael Jackson, Michelle Sweeney, Miki Howard, Moby, Moody Blues, Natalie Cole, Nazka, Neil Diamond, Neil Young, Nelly Furtado, Nylons, Odyssey, Olivia Newton John, Ommar, Oscar Peterson, Ottmar Liebert, Pat Benatar, Paul Simon, Pet Shop Boys, Peter Gabriel, Prince, Pointer Sisters, Quincy Jones, Rick James, Ricky Lee Jones, Ricky Martin, Rob McConnell, Rolling Stones, Rose Royce, Roxy Music, Sade, Sadie, Santa Esmeralda, Santana, Sarah McLachlan, Seal, Seals & Crofts, Selena, Shaun Barrowes, Sheena Easton, Shalamar, Skyy, Stephen Biship, Steve Rudolph, Stevie Nicks, Stevie Wonder, My Friend Sting of course, Sugarhill Gang, Sweetback, Sylvester of course, Taylor Dayne, Teena Marie, Thelonious Monk, Thompson Twins, Tina Washington, Tom Jones, Toni Braxton, Tracy Chapman, Van Morrison, Vicki Sue Robinson, Vickki Love, Warren Zevon, Was (Not Was), The Whispers, Whistle; also sings Always & Forever amazingly, Whitney Houston, Wild Cherry, Willie Nelson, Yarbrough & Peoples, Yazoo, Yello & Yo-Yo Ma.. and Zapp

Movies

When I ask you on the Chat or email "if you watch the The Daily Show", just imagine the sadness I'll feel for you if you tell me "No, I don't watch to much TV my dear".. BUT FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO CHECK IT OUT "GOOD FOR YOU!! YOU'LL LOVE IT!!"

Watching Films on Satellite because we can’t get cable here at this House, and this PC is on "Cattle Dial-up" so we can't watch Videos online either… But I Love watching a good film now & then, and I've seen many in my time... I don’t just enjoy Gay Films, I love Properly Portrayed GLBT THEMED FILMS - horrible HORROR - sensational SCI-FI - lovely LOVE - crazy DRAMA - wild FICTION - popping ACTION - screaming COMEDY - daring DOCUMENTARIES and musical MUSICALS - Did I mention Horror? Oh yes many of the "Chick Flicks & DANCE Films" of course. However I just CANT STAND THE HOMOPHOBIA IN THE MEDIA & MOVIES TODAY, and it's Absolutely disgusting that other kids & adults have to see it as well…. But there are many great movies & films I would Love to see, and there are so many that I did & do still Love.. I hope you will read them all as recommendations from me, because they‘re pretty special if they‘re listed here..

First & Foremost: QAF - Queer as Folk…. The Documentary Gay Sex in the 70’s, TRICK: Staring My Friend CoCo Peru & 2 cute boys. Big Eden, Brokeback Mountain, Any thing w/Mike Myers camping it up… You know the ones? Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery, The Spy Who Shagged Me,

And Goldmember… Then back to the other movies that he‘s not in.. There’s Kinky Boots, Breakfast on Pluto, All That Jazz, Fame, The Wiz w/ Diana Ross, Victor Victoria, Dream Girls, Grease, Saturday Night Fever or anything with John Travolta wearing tight pants will do nicely, although I can‘t wait to see him in Hairspray wearing loose fitting dresses either. Can’t Stop the Music with the Village People, Angels in America, Brother to Brother, The Assault on Reason, The Birdcage, Sordid Lives, The Adventures of Priscilla; Queen of the Desert, To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Pink Flamingos, Hairspray, Hair, In & Out, But I’m a Cheerleader, Maurice, Philadelphia, And The Band Played On, World Trade Center w/Nicholas Cage, Who Killed the Electric Car, La Cage Aux Folles, The Beautiful French Movie: Cote D’Azur, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, Little Shop of Horrors, Cabaret w/Liza Minnelli, anything & I mean anything with Thee Barbra Streisand.. Chicago w/Catherine Zeta-Jones, West Side Story, Strictly Ballroom, Shirley Valentine, Showgirls, Studio 54, Torch Song Trilogy, Mambo Italiano, Strangers with Candy, Anything with Jon Stewart or Stephen Colbert in it… The Rocky Horror Picture Show, American Dreamz, Kiss Me Guido, Prick up your ears, Outrageous & All Cheech & Chong Movies… Just make sure you go to the bathroom before the Film starts and you’ll be just fine…

All Movies with Tommy Chong in them and ones with that beautiful Daughter of his (I Love Tommy Chong & his Daughter), Get Real, The Celluloid Closet, Wigstock, Anything with my Hero Robert Gant in it, The Crying Game, The Secret of Words with Sarah Polley, My Beautiful Laundrette, Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory, Hair, Xanadu, Woody Allen, Pee Wee Herman & Mr. Bean Films..

Recently we just watched him in a Movie called Keeping Mum, and he was so fantastic… But when I was younge there was JAWS, or should I say; before all that there was JAWS… After going to see that I never wanted to go in beach ocean again, even with all the trips we took to the different Beaches.. Of course now I wish I could be on one, basking in the sun with only watermelon in my right hand, and a giant Pina Colada in the other one… I also recently viewed with Ed, these three incredible movies: Running with Scissors, Little Miss Sunshine & Shortbus 2006 - Staring P.J. Deboy and Oh My God that one just blew us out of the water… I also love everything that Priscilla Presley is in as well… The Elvis Presley Movies that he himself ended up not appreciating, but Mom & I just loved were some of my favorites of course (he was so sexy).. I watched many shows and Movies and Videos with Mom, I can't believe it but it's true.. She gave me so much Love and if you came over to watch TV with me as a kid, she'd give so much Love also to You.. Do you watch TV with your Mom or Dad? I'd love to hear what that's like sometime....

Heroes and Influences

Here are a few of my Wonderful Heroes, that inspire me, that encourage me, that bring out my True Colors with just a thought… They bring me to do things for others with ease & care and that have me come to this section and see why it is I am not to get depressed when things just become to horrible to bear…

Besides… What good am I to anyone if I‘m depressed…

My Mom & Dad are my Heroes for living as long as they did with the Hell my Brother & Sisters put them through... And how they always told me “Never to say Never. Because nothing is impossible.“

And the Next Hero would be Edward Remming: My Man is my Hero for living as long as he does with the "Loving Hell" I put him through. And how he always makes me feel that when it comes to helping others “Nothing is impossible“ so I now Never say Never..

Then there's Mary Walsh: Canadian Comedian / Producer / Actress. Scott Thompson: Kids in the Hall & My Fabulous Gay Wedding. Larry Kramer for writing the treasure: FAGGOTS. Sandra Oh: Wonderful Gay Supportive Actress. The Cutie Pie Tommy Chong. Rupaul: American drag performer, dance music singer, actor, and songwriter. Bebe Sweetbriar: American drag performer and operator of her Foundation that raises monies to support agencies/organizations programs designed to assist youths fight HIV/AIDS & live through HIV/AIDS. She’s also Miss Desperate Diva 2007.. But she’s not the only Drag Queen Performer I adore as a Hero of mine… Just look at all my Friends in the Friends list and you will see the rest of my Drag Queen Heroes… I kiss them all….

Then there’s Rick Mercer: The Rick Mercer Report. John Edward: The Psychic Medium. Jon Stewart: The Daily Show. And Stephen Colbert of The Colbert Report…

Oh yes & Did I mention that the beautiful Jane Fonda is also my hero for flirting with and kissing Stephen Colbert while sitting on his Lap? Yes I know she should be my Hero for all the other great things she’s done for man & animal kind, but at this point in my Life at my age (being upset about Femaphobia everywhere & funny for many) - I choose sitting on Stephen’s Lap, Flirting & Kissing him a very inspirational act on her part (showing us it can be done)…. Now it would be nice to see what I can do with sweet Stephen? Mmmm..

There’s John Amaechi: Former NBA Player. Kirby Dick. The Cast & Crew of QAF, Kids in the Hall & ReGenesis... The Inspiring & Beautiful & Talented & Strong (New York Times dubbed as Osama Bin Laden’s worst nightmare): IRSHAD MANJI... Plus WILLIE NELSON, Al Gore, Steve Stanton, 2007 Democratic Presidential Candidate Senator Mike Gravel, Stephen Benjiman: Former Petty Officer Second Class, Michael Moore, Moses Znaimer: Canadian TV Mogul & Philanthropist & someone My Mom Adored.. And the Truly Missed and Loved Assassinated Gay Hero Harvey Milk: Gay Politician & Rights Advocate…. Now, Judge Judy, Dog: The Bounty Hunter & his beautiful Wife Beth. Tommy Chong & My MySpace Friends like Abisel, BeBeSweetbriar, Queer John, Arlene, Shirley, Kellee, Paul, Robert Gant, Tony Ollie, the Husband that needs to send his Wife to Africa and others as well as the ones that run the groups of support for GLBT’s, Animals, Disease, The Environment & those other worthy awareness causes… Actor Cillian Murphy, Rupert Everett & all Actors & Actresses that played or play an amazingly portrayed Gay or Lesbian,,, & all non Celebrity Gay people that choose to come out of the closet & be proud about it.. Yes we’re everywhere, even us with Yellow Hair.

Also Loving Parents that don’t impose or encourage any of their kids that may be acting a little feminine or gay, to be homophobic or Femaphobic.. And they do that by constantly speaking up about the normality & wonderfulness of that child’s feminine or gay behavior & speaking out against the suppression of it all caused by the Masculine & Heterosexualization of the world…. These Loving Parents will always be Heroes and never loose the Love & respect of their Feminine or Gay Child - the way my Mom & Dad lost the Love & Respect from my straight sister & brother, and gay sister… And if you have a child that shows Gay tendencies then Good For You!!! You’ll love the way they Love you if you respect their actions, thoughts & comments they allow you to hear or know about.. Be loving & accepting (without any if’s or but’s) to your possible gay child and they will always be there for you towards the end of your own life…

And The Amazing Robert Gant. When I first saw him in the TV Show QAF, I thought “now there’s a beautiful Man, but then when I found out what this beautiful Man does when he’s not acting in films, I was astonished and my big Crush became Crushier… He’s an activist and a Humanitarian, and came out in 2002, in The Advocate magazine. Since that time, he has fought and continues to fight for the rights of the gay community. He has participated in numerous benefits, functions, and fund-raisers for such organizations as GLAAD, The Equality Forum, Project Angel Food, Lambda Legal, and the Democratic National Committee. So if that doesn’t inspire you to visit his Fan site, I don’t know what will, but he inspires me to do more than just visit his site, and that’s why he’s another Great Hero of mine…

But there's so many more Lushes Heroes I want to put here, however don't forget that we are all Heroes; some of us just act out more; on impulses of Love, Concern for others, awareness & forth-coming-ness and what I find very important to be experienced instincts during simple & complex observations of familiarity. But we all know about those special and rare silent heroes don’t we….

And if you are someone who appreciates Human Rights, then you should be finding out what you can do to help out, so that every Human Can Have Rights, and the Rights that every human could have are Equal & Fair.. Not resulting in Death & Despair..

Now the next way to get your representative in the U.S. House of Representatives to vote to impeach President George W. Bush, Vice President Richard B. Cheney, Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice, Secretary of Defense Donald H. Rumsfeld, and Attorney General Alberto Gonzales for high crimes and misdemeanors, and to have the case prosecuted and tried in the U.S. Senate.

And the Inspirations for all my creative design & theme of my Myspace comes to me from All My Heroes; Past & Present, Near & Far... Alone or in Groups; Groups that really make a difference with or without me in them… But it sure feels nice to be a part of the “World’s Bigger Picture”.. Thank you everyone, now here are some more wonderful Heroes in my Heroes Book…